Where Did The Time Go? True Love May Be The Time Bandit

Happy birthday sounds much better when you are ten than when you are one year past the mid-century mark, at least for me. I can remember when I was ten and playing on the abandoned steam shovel behind the coal region town of Kaska, Pennsylvania with my childhood friend Nemo as if it was yesterday. I can also remember going to Hershey Park in Stenny's father's car as he got his license first among our group of friends, we were 16. Those days seem to last a lot longer than the days that go by now and I believe that the proportion of time itself has something to do with it.Proportion and imagery spoke volumes to us for millions of years before language was fashionable. Size produced some interesting survival strategies throughout the history of biological evolution by which the most recognizable...

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Do You LOVE Only When It Is An Automatic Reaction To Someone or Something?

Let's face it for the most part we all have experienced love at some point in our lives even if you don't feel love now.However, for many of us the only kind of love that you are able to experience is when it is automatic reaction someone or something.In other words, the only time you love is when you find yourself automatically in a state of love without you having to have to actually do anything about it.As you can imagine, we live in an increasingly complex society yet when it comes to our emotions many times the default setting is on automatic.Wouldn't it be nice if in the future you actually could transform your capacity to love to whenever you wanted rather than to only love as a reaction to something or someone?That's why you will be glad to know that there is an even better way to...

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Will I Get Married? The Bizarre Truth About Love Predictions (And The BEST Way To Get Yours!)

Does he really love me? Do I have a soulmate? Will I get married... and if YES, when? Believe it or not, these 3 simple questions are the most popular, and the most common queries thrown at love psychics, emotional intuitives, astrological experts and relationship advisors by far! As a matter of fact, as an emotional empath and professional relationship blogger, I can tell you from first hand experience that more women want to know the answers to the above, than just about any other "life prediction" there is!But can a psychic, or astrology chart REALLY tell you if you're going to be married?In my experience, the answer is YES. And not only is it yes... I truly believe that each of us has a purpose, and a plan that is pre-ordained to some degree when we come into this world. Finding love......

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Someone I Loved

It was a clear day. I was just sitting alone in my school playground. I was happy to be alone, as it became my habit to be so. I heard a slow sound becoming clear to my ears. It was the sound of the leaves, which was created by someone who was coming closer and closer to me.I ignored, as everyone among my classmates knew that I liked to be alone so I was not expecting anyone. But after a few seconds I saw a shadow bending towards me and a hand was on my shoulder. I slowly turned around to see that who was there. That person was one of my classmates, he was the only one who was with me from 1st standard.Now, we were in 8th standard but during such a long period we never spoke even a single word with each other. His name was Kunwar, as per the meaning of his name he was like a prince. He had...

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To Hell With True Love, I Want Friends With Benefits!

Friends with Benefits is Hollywood's second installment of 2011 on substituting casual sex for a real love relationship. A Screen Gems release scheduled to hit theatres on 22 July, the film stars Justin Timberlake and Mila Kunis. The movie comes on the coat tails of Paramount's No Strings Attached starring Natalie Portman and Ashton Kutcher released in January. In addition to the two movies, a new NBC sitcom Friends with Benefits is scheduled to premiere on August 5. Is Hollywood trying to proclaim 2011 as the year that America finally comes to grips with the sexual revolution? It has been over forty years since the "summer of love", yet this year's Hollywood propagated casual sex theme seems vaguely familiar. Maybe Timothy Leary and the rock opera Hair were on to something in the sixties....

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2 Unusual Ways to Find LOVE (And the Strange Way I Learned My Man Was NOT The "ONE")

Who else is still looking for love? Are you in a relationship today that doesn't feel quite right? Do you get up in the morning with an uneasy feeling that the man in your life is simply "wrong" for you in ways that you can't quite capture with words? Or maybe you ARE in fact in love... desperately in love, with a man who doesn't quite return the same level of commitment, or emotion as you?Regardless of your reasons, the simple truth is, MANY women find ourselves unhappy with our romantic relationships. As a matter of fact, one recent study suggested that of women OVER 40 years old who had been married for more than a decade, about 50% were "certain" they had picked the wrong partner.That is a pretty scary statistic. Especially when you combine it with the fact that we know that many relationships...

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Together Forever, A Love Story - They Loved Their Neighbors As Themselves

Two friends; a man and a woman, were suddenly awakened as most were in that small city; to the terrifying sounds of buildings tumbling into ruins, and terrible groaning from deep within the earth. The long predicted earthquake had struck the unprepared valley city.The man and woman were quickly caught up in the race to escape the disaster. They grabbed their survival packs and a couple of other items and took to the streets; such as they were. There was no time to lose, everyone who could, was scurrying to and fro in an effort to escape the wrath of destruction.The friends, a couple, made their way out of the rubble as quickly as they could and were aided in the process by the fact that they had lived close to the edge of the little city. Soon, they were on their way up the side of a hill...

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What Are Your Boundaries?

We all have them. Some to keep us in line. Some to keep others at arms length. What are yours for?Think about our boundaries. We teach them to our children. "Don't get up in people's faces." "Don't touch your brother. Stay on your half of the couch." "Only go on group dates." "Don't loan money to your family and close friends."These are basic boundaries we learn as we grow up. Of course, as we experience life, and cross some of these boundaries, testing the water, we lose some of them. What happens when life beats us down, smacks us around, and leaves us on the side of the road battered and bruised?We end up with walls, not boundaries. Walls that keep those around us at arms length. Walls that keep us from making mistakes and choices we fear are wrong. Walls that keep in feelings of unworthiness...

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Giving Gifts Is Not the Same As Giving Love

In any kind of relationship, giving is the most important aspect for the relationship to last. There are many reasons why we give to one another in different ways. Giving is a way of showing how and what we feel. When we give, we let the person know that we are willing to share what we have and we let them know that we value them.Giving does not only limit to people we know. We even give to people we do not know just to show them that we care or to the needy to show them that we are here to help. But giving does not limit to material things only. You can bring happiness to people by giving a helping hand. Sometimes a smile is more than enough to make someone feel better. Our smile can make a big difference to anyone who receive it. Giving a smile is the most rewarding feeling anyone can get...

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Ask a Psychic - What Does a Love Compatibility Coach REALLY Do? (Weird But TRUE!)

Do soul-mates really exist? Can you really get a psychic love reading that helps you discover your true spiritual partner... or is that all a bunch of bunk? And how can anyone really predict love compatibility at all... isn't that someone that needs to be figured out between two people, over the course of many years?Any of these questions sound familiar? The truth is, the #1 reason why MOST people seek psychic advice is for matters of love, lust and relationship counseling. As a matter of fact, by some estimates, there will be over 1 million telephone readings done in 2011... JUST for love advice alone!So how does it all work? Let me give you the straight scoop... immediately below!1 - Most love readers work by doing an aura or energy assessment. While it may sound "weird" to those of you...

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Is He Perfect?

He isn't perfect... oh darn, now what... do you try and mold him into perfection or do you take a look at your own thoughts on perfection in a partner?Is it really about perfection or finding the perfect partner for you? In seeking out a partner be very aware as to exactly whose perfection you are using as guidelines in your search. Is it medias idea of perfection for you or is it who you deem as perfect for you. Confusing isn't it? It can be if you are blinded by anything other than your own thoughts and idealism.Each gender shares the same misconceptions when seeking out a partner....he/she must be perfect.Funny how we as human beings secretly and even subconsciously seek that perfect partner. What trips us up in this desire is that the partner we are seeking is not actually a perfect species...

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Keep Your Relationship Alive - Flirt With Your Partner

Many couples complain that, as time passes, their relationship is not what it used to be anymore. This is because at the beginning of a relationship both partners flirt and this keeps their interest awake. Nobody says that this has to end once you move in together or you get married. Flirting with your partner or husband at all times and even in the most unexpected situations will keep your relationship alive. The key is to constantly keep him interested in you and to always make him think about you.Make sure you feel like you are at a first date each time you go out. Other couples will sure envy the sparkle in your relationship and will want to know the secret. Here are some proven tips to revive your relationship and boost the passion in your marriage:Revive the Passion and Save Your RelationshipNo...

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Discover a Great Way to Experience the State of Being Love Now And In The Future

As you have made the decision now or at some point in your past to move towards the more empowering state of being love, you probably already have experienced especially powerful moments of intense love.No doubt about it, all it takes is a glimpse at the state of being love for you to realize that this may indeed be a state that you want to get into more and more often.That's why you will be glad to know that recalling and reliving any of those experiences of LOVE that you have already experienced is a great way to begin to get in touch with that experience.In fact, if you were to try and experience the state of BEING LOVE without using your previous experiences of LOVE then you might find your journey to be a rather challenging one and that's okay as well since there is no right or wrong...

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A Definition Of Love We All Can Give

Love is something that everyone on this planet not only needs to make them feel good, it is part of our survival. To keep this beautiful world we live in a place that is healthy for our survival love is the most essential ingredient. When there is love everything comes about so naturally.So often we over complicate our lives and get way to in depth with how or why we love instead of just giving and receiving it. I want to share with you a definition of love that everyone is capable of and if we all starting seeing and giving it we would create so much more peace throughout the world.Here Is A Definition Of Love.Love is simply an emotion that we all need for survival as a race, it does not discriminate as we all need it in our lives like food, shelter,air and water. It is shared amongst people...

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Can I Have True Love And A Prenup?

This is one of the most difficult questions that I have ever been asked and it is not because I am not a lawyer, I'm not. It is difficult because my personal opinion on prenuptial agreements differs from the general requirements of a true love relationship. A prenuptial agreement or premarital agreement is a legal contract entered into prior to marriage or a civil union that typically outlines asset distribution in the event of divorce. Civilized governments from the time of the first priest kings have recognized certain rights and privileges associated with a state declared union including common property rights. In fact, the main reason for publically declaring the union through a marriage contract has historically been so that the state and everyone else can legally recognize and uphold...

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Do You LOVE Without Asking or Demanding Anything in Return?

In a moment, find yourself allowing the following words to sink in for a moment..."Love, true love, is that which can give the most without asking or demanding anything in return." Mazie HammondAnd as you allow these words to sink into your deepest states of your BEING see if you can begin to notice times in your past when you gave out of LOVE without asking or demanding anything in return.What did it feel like when you gave out of LOVE without asking or demanding anything in return?When you go back to that place or time what did it look like and in that moment and even in this moment now could you sense that you were giving out of LOVE or where you giving from some other place or space?And as you continue to allow that feeling of giving out of LOVE to enter into your deepest state of BEING...

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Does My Husband Love Me? Here Are The Questions You Should Know

If you feel like recoiling from your relationship due to some reasons, you should call your acts together before another woman gets the man who is rightfully yours. It is understandable that you ask the question every other woman on earth always asks; that of - "does my husband love me?"This is nothing new especially for women who have just married recently. What happens is when the husband seems quiet for a while; the women take it as there is already something wrong in the relationship. To avoid acting this way and feeling like your husband is always out to cheat on you, make sure you read this article from top to bottom. In the end, you will realize the benefits of doing so.Is Your Husband Receiving The Kind Of Care He Needs?You see, to have found such relationship with the person you...

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Finding The Girl Of Your Dreams (And Keeping Her)

Although there are many things in life that are important to us, one of the most crucial to a lot of people, is finding a girl you love and that will always love you back, even in the worst of times as well as the best of times.To some people, this may seem impossible, but rest assured, there is someone out there for everyone because this is the very reason why there is approximately a 50:50 ratio of men to women on this planet, meaning that there are around 3 billion of each currently on Earth.The key reason why a lot of people on Earth are currently single is because of the increasing popularity of the Internet and not actually going out and meeting new people as much. Online dating does exist, but is nowhere near as effective as actually going to real places that are not virtual in nature.Also,...

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Allowing A Love Relationship In

Are you one of those people who wants love but is afraid to give it? If your love relationships haven't been all you want them to be it's time to take notice of what you do to keep people away.Explore what your motives are and why you cause yourself so much angst by holding yourself away from a lover. People often hold back because they're afraid of passionate love relationships and fear hiding deep in their heart makes it virtually impossible to give and accept love. Not wanting to be hurt, you do and say things you don't really mean and then wonder why no one ever loves you enough to stay around.So often you search out your faults and make them obvious to your partner. After weeks, months, or years of trying to get through your junk, they throw up their hands in frustration and leave you...

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How to Fix a Relationship

Every relationship has its ups and downs, its rough periods. Even in the best of circumstances, there are difficult times. It's natural so don't beat yourself up if you're relationship doesn't seem like a Hollywood romance. The fact is that people change, circumstances change, emotions change...everything changes!Over time, the natural ebb and flow of everyday life places incredible pressure on a relationship.Almost unnoticed at first, you begin to think thoughts that had once been unthinkable. "I love him, but I'm not in love with him. Not anymore." "I'm not attracted to her, not like I was in the beginning." "Maybe if we separated for awhile..." The skies can darken in a hurry, and this can be a very scary time. Suddenly, the security of the relationship (one of the major advantages of...

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How To Get Your Husband To Love You Again: 3 Easy Steps Worth Taking

Are you wondering about how to get your husband to love you again? Perhaps you noticed him being different lately? Does he avoid meeting your gaze? Does it seem like there is no more connection between the two of you that every talking point you initiate end up being futile in the long run? Well, read this article and take advantage of the various tips and tricks that may be shared with you as far as making your husband love you once again is concerned.1. Re-Ignite The Spark: Do Things You Used To Do TogetherFirst and foremost, spend time to think about something that can bring a new meaning to the relationship. Make sure it is something that your husband will extremely like so that it will be guaranteed to ignite a spark in your marriage. This will surely be a good start of bringing back...

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A Golden Age Love Story

With a golden age about her, you would never know. She was so busy with her shovel and her trowel as I came upon her quietly working alone. She was making narrow walkways through her garden, placing bricks in neat, tidy borders, her day-dreaming drifting among the thorns and rose buds.Planting, feeding - sowing, weeding, her flowers brighten everyone with her love in the sunshine of the hot, dry, dog-days of summer. Her pathways leading her where they may... a golden age offers choices that are hers alone.A squirrel scampers down the trunk of the tree, curious, watching me gather blossoms for my table and a few for my friend needing to be remembered with happiness and beauty. She is startled by a garter-snake basking in the sun; it's surprised by her presence too, slithering away, it isn't...

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Does He LOVE Me? 2 Weird Ways the Universe Wants to Tell You He Does! (No Bull)

Does he really love me? How can I be sure? And what are the signs he's the one? How can I tell that he's the one I'm going to spend a lifetime with... for better or for worse? With so many scandals in the news these days... it's no wonder there is a complete and utter panic in so many relationships... especially when it to is cheating, fidelity and the idea that each of us has a "soulmate" we were destined to meet.Did you know that some studies show that over 75% of women believe in soul-mates or spiritual partnerships?Strangely... only about 40% of men do!And if you can't even trust that he loves you, how can you possible know for sure he won't stray, cheat or "trade up" when someone better or more interesting comes along?The good news?You CAN! And if you know what to look for....the signs...

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How To Make Him Love Me: Your 3-Step Approach To Get The Love You Want

So you ask yourself the questions every other woman on earth asks - that of "how to make him love me" but then you just cannot seem to find the answers that can help you. Really, having a partner is not as simple as it may seem. Too many times, hearts get broken, relationships fail; people go.For these, it becomes essential to find the most efficient ways by which you will know how to make your partner love you with the kind of love that lasts. But then again, keep in mind that finding the ultimate solutions to your problem of "how to make him love me" is not an easy task to pull off. That is why make sure you pin down the tips that could be truly useful for you, make it a point that you implement them right away. Below are some helpful tips you may find useful as far as improving your relationship...

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Unique Wedding Dresses for Brides Who Love Frills

Nothing compares to a royal wedding when it comes to ratings. An estimated two billion people watched Prince William and Kate Middleton tie the knot on April 29th, 2011. If that number is accurate, that means that nearly one in every three people witnessed the royal wedding, either in person or on television. How does someone handle that kind of pressure...billions of eyes on them? Answer: She wears a killer dress.Miss Middleton walked down the aisle in a stunning designer gown that cost around 40,000 dollars.The dress was handmade by a top couturier, and it had all the bells and whistles. Lace applique, a nine foot train, and a shimmering silk ivory-tulle veil were only the appetizers. The world's most talked about gown was made from English Cluny lace and French Chantilly lace throughout...

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What Makes Men Fall in Love?

After researching this subject "What Makes Men Fall In Love" I have come to the conclusion that men are just as complicated as women. And that most of the things that we do to attract someone of the opposite sex is just natural. If I had to sit down and plan how I was going to act to attract a man then I would probably give up. I mean, if it's something that you need to "act" to do, then eventually the act will disappear and he will be left with the natural you. Fortunately for us "what makes men fall in love" will come natural, especially when you run across a man that triggers your pheromones ( in Greek known as the "excitement carrier") and hopefully you will trigger his.But there are some interesting data I found on this topic on "What Makes Men Fall In Love?" that I know you will find...

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