Monday, August 22, 2011

Finding The Girl Of Your Dreams (And Keeping Her)

Although there are many things in life that are important to us, one of the most crucial to a lot of people, is finding a girl you love and that will always love you back, even in the worst of times as well as the best of times.

To some people, this may seem impossible, but rest assured, there is someone out there for everyone because this is the very reason why there is approximately a 50:50 ratio of men to women on this planet, meaning that there are around 3 billion of each currently on Earth.

The key reason why a lot of people on Earth are currently single is because of the increasing popularity of the Internet and not actually going out and meeting new people as much. Online dating does exist, but is nowhere near as effective as actually going to real places that are not virtual in nature.

Also, it would seem that the best way to find someone is to go on a night out with a large group of friends, the larger the group the better, as there will be a good chance one of them will be single, and therefore available.

There are, of course, other good ways to meet people, i.e. through a workplace environment or in college, if you are lucky enough to still be around 17 or so. It is important to remember though, that no matter how old you are, the possibilities of you finding someone are endless, so it is vital to never give up hope when it comes to matters of love.

There are a few key factors that you should consider before dating someone:

Notice that I have deliberately missed out some obvious points here. This is because while these, such as looks, are important to some people, it is not the be all and end all of a relationship and people need to remember that when choosing someone to be in a relationship with.

The key thing to ask yourself before committing yourself to a serious relationship is the following:

Will you still want to be with them in years to come no matter what happens?

If the answer to the above question is yes, then you have found your match. If your answer to this is I'm not sure, I would not commit to anything serious until you are sure of this answer, as it will only cause problems in the long run.

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