If you are a woman with any kind of relationship experience behind you, then I am sure that you have had the experience of having a guy say that he loves you and then go and do things that make it seem pretty obvious that he does not feel that way. While this is a pretty common occurrence, it still may make you wonder, why do guys do that? Is it all just a game to them or is there something that you need to know?
Love is one of those words that, unfortunately, it gets thrown around way too casually and because of that... it tends to lose its true meaning to many people. While everyone is going to have their own exact definitions of what the word means, it tends to have universal applications. So, why is it that a guy will say that he loves you and then do things that seem to demonstrate otherwise?
Here are 3 possibilities for why men say they love a woman when it sure does not seem that way:
1) He wants to feel that way, but he just does not.
Here's the truth about some guys who drop the L word too casually and then do things that make you wonder why they would go and say that - they WANT to feel that way. Look, a lot of guys are not total jerks, they do want to feel that way, however, they just don't Instead of being honest about it, they would rather say that they do with the hopes that that will somehow placate the situation so that they do not have to talk about it any further.
2) It's just a line to him, and he hopes you buy it.
This is also another really common reason and it is one that you have to be on the lookout for. There are some guys that will use the word as nothing more than just a line to get what they want. And if you buy it, then you will end up paying the price for it.
3) He does not know how to show it.
This is a common reason that quite often gets misread by a woman. He might really love you and he might not be playing any games at all... yet he does not know how to show it. We get taught how to show love as we grow up, and many people never really get that lesson and so when they grow up... they don't know how to show their affection and true feelings.
Does he really love you back or is he just playing games with you?
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