Saturday, October 15, 2011

The Opposite of Love Is Laziness

Stay in a very comfortable position and I want you to imagine this...

What if your mother is too lazy to wake up early in the morning to cook your bacon and serve your breakfast?

Much more, what if your mother was too lazy to breastfeed you when you were still a baby?

What if your father is too lazy to go to work to his office and earn a living?

Or how about he has work, but he is too lazy to open his wallet and give you your allowance for the day?

What if your brother is too lazy to study hard and finish his education knowing that the family's future lays in his hands?

What if your sister is too lazy to wash the dishes, cook some food, clean the house, wash clothes - even the hankies!?

What if your husband is too lazy to go and pick the children from school after class?

What if your wife is too lazy to kiss you good night?

What if your best friend is too lazy to go over your house and listen to you knowing that you just broke up with your boyfriend or girlfriend that afternoon?

Or just your ordinary friend so lazy to give you a one correct answer - just one simple correct answer - during the exams.

What if your girlfriend is too lazy to come early and on time in your dates - 3 hours and 48 minutes late perhaps?

What if your boyfriend is too lazy to brush his teeth?

Friends, I still believe that laziness is the opposite of love. Some say, it's indifference, well yes, I still agree. But how do you show indifference?

Laziness.

Do this.

First, thank the significant persons in your life who does these simple things - waking up early, small sacrifices, all the cooking for you, waiting for you for hours, staying late at night when you are sick, going to friends just to borrow money when you need one, being patient every time you lose your patience and all other big extra effort - just to help you out. These are small things, but be thankful, at least you know that they still love you. And someone still loves you.

Second, always remember, that if you value a relationship and you really wanted to keep it - don't be lazy towards it.

Work on it.

Do the hard stuff.

Hanz Florentino is a motivational speaker, personal excellence coach, and a creative director who lives his life helping thousands to discover their passions and make money millions from it. Today he shares the secret to build great relationships. A Magna Cum Laude graduate of Psychology he now leads people to create an Excellence Blueprint in their Life, Career, Relationships, Business, Leadership, and Wealth. Know more about the Motivational Speaker Hanz Florentino here.

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