For you are like many people, your romantic relationships will end up being one of the most important things in your life. Working to develop and grow that relationship is necessary if you want it to last. Being honest about what you want and whether or not you are receiving it is key. So is not forgetting who you are even in the midst of a hot, torrid love affair. Making a commitment to growing the friendship between you and your partner is helpful as well. Friendships help cement relationships even when romantic feelings temporarily (hopefully) languish.
a. Be honest about what you want: In order to develop a good relationship with your lover, it is important that you are honest about what you want. Settling won't help anyone, you or him (or her). Instead, first determine in your own heart what you want so that you will be able to communicate to your partner exactly what this is. You will need to be honest with yourself before you can with him or her.
b. Be honest when you are (or aren't) getting what you want: Now, I'm not suggesting that you nag your partner to death but it is important that you tell him or her when you are not getting what you want or need. This sure beats cheating, because you are unsatisfied but have yet to admit that to your partner. Equally important is to let him or her know when you are indeed satisfied. All of us like to know when we are appreciated and getting it right. It cuts both ways. It is important to discuss both the good and the bad.
c. Don't forget who you are: It can be easy for people, both men and women to lose themselves in a relationship, especially in the beginning when emotions are running high and the relationship is brand new.
d. Make a commitment to the friendship not just the relationship: Often times, the best relationships are those built on friendships. Get to know your partner as a friend and cultivate that friendship. This will help you two better withstand tough times.
Making a commitment to the friendship and not just the relationship is important. Relationships that have a strong underlying friendship have a better chance of surviving. Not forgetting who you are and not getting lost in the relationship is important as well. Being honest about what you want and whether or not you are receiving it can be helpful as well. If you consider all of the aforementioned, you have a fighting chance of working things out with your partner and developing a relationship that is lasting and loving.
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